Hello, Beautiful Sharon,
"The time to analyze and figure things out isn't when you're feeling fearful. A fearful state of mind brings confusion, leads to poor choices, and produces more fearful thoughts. Instead, do your best to redirect to better-feeling thoughts, like appreciation, a beautiful state of mind that brings clarity, leads to inspired choices, and produces more joyful thoughts.
The Joy Energy
It can be hard to imagine a different reality when an unwanted reality is up close and personal
Years ago we were struggling financially, my husband hadn't been able to work for months because of sciatic issues.
We got behind on our mortgage and were facing foreclosure on our home. I felt panicky and hopeless.
There was a government refinance program that might help but it felt too daunting to apply for.
Friends had applied but gotten turned down, so I thought, why bother?
I needed to calm down. My fears wouldn't allow any clear thoughts to get through.
These fears attracted a lot of judgmental thoughts about myself and my husband, as well as thoughts of the unfairness of life.
I escaped my fears for periods of time with work, walks, movies, or a book.
But as the foreclosure notices became more urgent my anxiety revved up and became a constant presence.
One day, I decided, alright, no more running away, I challenged my fears to come out and be heard, no holds barred.
I let the fears know it was safe to share anything, I would meet all of them with love and acceptance. And I did.
They came out fast and furious like projectile vomit. It was over within minutes.
After my purge, I felt better. But I didn't stop there. I opened up a dialogue with them.
I let these fears know I recognized they had good intentions. I knew they wanted me to be happy and wanted things to work out for us.
Soft thoughts started to come that soothed my negative judgments.
I reassured myself our financial troubles weren't a statement of our lovability or worthiness and that things could change for the better. Other fine souls had faced similar situations as us and were doing just fine now.
I let my fears know, even though I didn't know the answers, somehow we'd be alright. And then I reviewed past memories when things had felt hopeless at one time and then changed for the better.
Other softer thoughts came, like, the foreclosure process will take time, and I was in the house right now, so why not appreciate and enjoy it?
From this lighter broader perspective, clarity came, I was able to relax more, and take the steps needed to apply for refinancing. Something that before had seemed too overwhelming and daunting now felt manageable.
I didn't know if we would get the refinance but it felt good to take an action step, and it felt good to feel good again, so I continued to redirect my fears to more optimistic thoughts.
We did get the refinancing, my husband's sciatic did eventually get better, and I developed stronger healthier positive patterns of habit.
"There is no greater gift than feeling good in the now moment.".
Sharon
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